Jamaica, Negril May 2015
Taara & James Hedonism Trip (2015)
We awoke late the next morning and ended up catching the tail end of breakfast. It was our last full day at Hedo so I wasn’t that happy about missing our breakfast, but we were able to find some fruit and banana bread. While I finished eating, James went to check with the tourist desk to see if the Catamaran would be doing the tour to Rick’s Café later in the afternoon. We had signed up a few days earlier in hopes that we could check out the restaurant and see some cliff jumping. Unfortunately not enough people had signed up (you need 10 people) so we opted on going to do some snorkeling on the prude beach and seeing if we could cab it to Rick’s Café instead.
James was able to convince me to go out on the blue foamie for some snorkeling around the prude beach. Typically, I am not a swimmer and terrified of water so this was a big deal to me! We floated all along the beach looking at the gorgeously coloured fish and snapping pictures. After an hour I had seen my fair share of creepies in the water and retreated to my lounger chair. I noticed a couple we had spoken to a few times some chairs down from me and started to talk to them about their plans for the day.
They wanted to go on the catamaran tour as well, but like us, realized there were not enough people. The guy said there may be a possibility of setting something up with another tour group that picked up people from each resort. I told him we would be in for that and we all agreed on a game plan should the opportunity present itself. Eventually James and his wife surfaced from snorkeling and we all parted ways, excited for our Plan B catamaran trip. The couple went to go talk to the off-resort catamaran tour person and James and I decided it was time to eat again. We were starving from our light breakfast and morning swim adventure!
We had both just sat down from grabbing food when the catamaran couple found us. They had found a tour group that was willing to pick them up, but they were leaving in the next 5 minutes. I looked at my delicious plate of food and drinks in front of me and then out at the water (it had just started to rain). I then looked at Jameswith the hanger-iest eyes ever in desperation. He knew I needed the food and although I was pretty pissed to give up the catamaran, we needed to eat. We said goodbye to the couple and told them to have fun. We said there may be a chance of us meeting them at Rick’s later on. They quickly hustled back to the dock to catch the catamaran and we enjoyed our lunch together.
After we finished the food we so desperately needed, we went to talk to a driver to arrange a ride to Rick’s Café. We chatted with one who said he would be more than happy to give us a ride for $40US (there and back). We picked a time to leave and then took our last day walk around the resort. It was pretty sad knowing that the last day was upon us. Neither of us wanted to leave and neither of us wanted to go back to “real life” where we would need to be clothed.
We made sure to spend some time at the nude pool and beach as well. The older couple we had spoken to from the night before was in the nude pool and instantly started up a conversation with us again at the bar. We easily talked to them about The LS and their experience at the resort. They said that it seemed slow and although they talked sexually to a few couples, they hadn’t found anything much more then soft swapping. She also confessed that the last couple they had tried to swing with had some issues in the bedroom; troubles with performance, and she and I bonded over talking and relating to this. It is actually something that can be quite common in The LS, especially when the man might be a little shyer and the other women is more “take charge” or confident. In my experience, if a couple is new to The LS and a little more reserved or shy, the guy can get a little intimidated. It’s just something I have observed, and so had she, so we bonded and got tipsy and shared some laughs. James was the one who noticed that we were getting close to needing to leave for Rick’s Café so we parted ways from the older couple to go get ready in our room.
I pondered the women on our walk back to the room and announced to James that I figured she could use a good fucking. As I mentioned before, Boyfriend is good at giving it to women and I often joke that I “stud him out”. I told him I would have no issues with studding him out to her so she could experience a young hot sexy fuck on her vacation. He looked at me, eyes wide open and grinning and agreed he could sense she needed it too. We laughed at our dirty plan together and excitedly got ready for driving out to the cliffs at Rick’s Café.
I was nervous to leave the resort again, but our driver seemed kind and was also familiar with the people at the resort. He chatted us up while driving to Rick’s, asking where we had gone and what we had seen. We confessed that we hadn’t done much off the resort and he scolded us for missing out on some awesome tourists’ spots. We agreed that it sucked we missed out on seeing the waterfalls and Bob Marley’s grave BUT we also didn’t come to the resort to sightsee a lot. We came to find some sexy fun and get to know the resort first. I think our driver took the sound of disappointment as a sign that we wanted to sightsee some more off the resort, so he took us for a tour of that area of the island. I am actually happy he did that for us. We got to see a lot of Negril and a lot of crazy driving. We were just getting comfortable with driving around when he stopped off the road at a market. James happily jumped out of the car with the driver and I did at first but then hesitated and went back to the car. The driver assured me there was nothing bad here and I could shop, but I was uncomfortable and needed to get to know him a little better before getting out on the side of the road. Boyfriend and him both rolled their eyes but I know my comfortability level and I was not there yet!
Rick’s Café was amazing from the moment we got there! There were lots of locals and lots of tourists mixed in and the vibe was chill and laid back. The view was honestly the MOST BEAUTIFUL I had ever seen in my whole life. The endless turquoise water crashing against the grey was mesmerizing to watch and provided an amazing back drop for photos! We walked around in awe taking in all the beauty and people around us before finding the cliffs that everyone was jumping off. We watched a few locals and tourists jump before James turned around with huge eye and exclaimed he was going to give it a whirl. I was way too scared to try (non-swimmer and scared of water is not a good combo for this) so of course I wanted him to go so I could say one of us went! He said to give it some time so he could watch a few more go and get amped up.
It didn’t take long for us to run into the couple from the beach earlier in the morning. We found a table to have some Red Stripes and listen to the live Reggae music. We asked them how the Catamaran was and they said it was awesome and for a while, it was just the two of them. Eventually though, the group grew to around 100 people because of everyone they picked up at different resorts. James eventually got a little liquid courage in his system and announced it was time to go cliff jumping. He went to the launch off point and stripped down while the three of us found some spots to film him.
Soon after James finished his cliff jumping, it was time for the other couple to leave on the Catamaran. We said good bye again and then enjoyed a couple more beers together before finding our driver who was waiting for us and started so we could start our way back to the resort. I told him that I was ready to do a little shopping now that I had a little more trust in him and some beers in my belly. We stopped at the market on the way back to the resort and picked up some touristy items to bring back to Canada. Looking back I am so happy we did this because we now have some of the items in our house and they provide great memories of our trip together.
As it was our last night at the resort, I had to go all out with my outfit. It was fetish night and I loved dressing up in my leather and lace! I got ready in the room with James and we hurried to catch some dinner and find some other couples to sit with. We wanted to sit at a table with other couples so we could mingle (both of us were feel frisky!). We walked around and found the older couple from earlier at a table with others. We asked if we could sit with them for dinner and they gladly obliged and shuffled over for us. We chatted a lot and I made sure Boyfriend sat next to the women so he could get his flirt on. We watched the spectacular show put on by the entertainment staff, it so steamy and sexy and horned up the atmosphere a couple of notches. Exactly what we needed!
We danced after dinner and shared some laughs. It was refreshing to get another view of The LS and amazing to see that you can own and explore your sexuality at any age. I loved picking the couples brain’s about how they “practised” being in The LS. The older couple gave us a ton of great tips that we actually now apply in our lives. They were both very confident in themselves and in their relationship and opened up a lot to both of us.
With that being said, I feel like I also need to share an experience I had at the resort. If you are squeamish about periods then this might be TMI for you – but honestly I hope you aren’t if you are part of The LS because at some point this is something you will run into! I knew that I was bound to get my period while in Jamaica months before leaving for our trip. I believe in knowing your natural cycle and am not a huge advocate of using hormones when you don’t need to; however, I didn’t want to have my period while on vacation so I started taking the pill about 3 months before we left for our trip. Unfortunately, my cycle is a force to reckon with and did not want to cooperate with the pill. It did push my period back a couple of days but I did end up getting it early that day. I knew this would happen so before we left on our trip, I googled what others had done in my situation. Surprisingly, I found out this was a common concern for women at clothing optional resorts. Through chat forums I found out about an awesome product called Softcups. Softcups are the brand you can get in Canada (there are different ones in the States) and are a flexible cup that is worn internally, around your cervix to collect, rather than absorb, menstrual flow. It's hypo-allergenic, latex-free and completely safe to use. Unlike other types of menstrual cups, YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH THIS IN. I want to do a complete review of this product but I can assure you they work and you can have sex. Of course it is not the same but it saves you from tampon strings hanging around and really no one could tell you were on your period unless they felt it inside of you. With that being said, back to day 6!
I told the couple that I was on my period and they honestly couldn’t care less. I just didn’t want to come up awkwardly if we did end up playing, I wanted to make sure everyone knew ahead of time and was aware. James and I excused ourselves a little later on to go toke in our room and check out the Club to see if it was busy. The Club was pretty dead again when we went in to grab drinks. James left me at the bar to go use the washroom so I started talking to a couple who was also hanging at the bar. It turned out they were Lady Dee and Sarge from Vacation Parties. They are Canadians as well and we connected over that; they asked how I found the resort and I admitted it was pretty dead the last few days. They told me we should book through them to go with a group the next time we wanted to come and I said I would be 100% down with that. When Boyfriend showed up, I introduced him and we parted ways. We had to go find the older couple because I wanted to watch James rock her world.
We found them enjoying champagne at the bar and joined. We were all tipsy and laughing and James and I exchanged “glances” and invited them back to our room. They shared a toke with us outside our room and the men went to grab more refreshments. The woman and I were pretty plastered and took funny pictures while waiting for them. I made it clear to her that I was comfortable with James showing her a good time. She appreciated my honestly and for being straight forward. Sometimes things can get a little awkward if boundaries are not discussed beforehand and if couples don’t know certain “rules”. This especially can happen at resorts because unlike at home where you discuss these things online before meeting a couple, you actually can only talk face to face!!
As soon as James walked in with another flute of champagne for her, she pounced on him. I slyly gave him the “eyes” and turned some of my attention to her husband. We played but our attention was more on what was going on. James’ thick, large cock was hard and erect for her just as I knew it would be. She spent some time showing it appreciation; I could tell she wanted his dick bad. It didn’t take long before he took control of what was going on and forced her on her back on the bed. He got on his knees and made himself comfortable between her legs. She screamed out with pleasure as he played with her pussy. He used his tongue and hands and gave her orgasm after orgasm. It excited me knowing he was providing her with so much pleasure and dedication. When she was whimpering for more in between orgasms, he assumed the “squirting” position and went to work making her pussy even wetter and preparing her for fucking.
He grabbed a condom from where we had strategically placed them before and effortlessly slide it on (putting on condoms fast is an ART). Our travel lube was also carefully placed by the condoms and he made sure his hard cock was set for her. He thrust into her hard and deep like he normally did when fucking someone new for the first time. I shot him a cunning smile and we looked at each other for a second because we knew it felt amazing to her when she cried out. He continued thrusting faster and faster making her cry out longer and louder, fucking her exactly the way she had wanted to be fucked. He moved positions with her – he knew which ones felt good and gave it to her even harder. Her husband and I continued to play and watch, I was getting so turned on knowing that she was getting her hot vacation sex by someone who knew exactly how to fuck.
We lost track of time and eventually I glanced at the clock and panicked for a second knowing it was way past our bedtime - we still had to pack to leave in the morning. The couple thanked us for a wonderful night (high five James!) and we drunkenly packed for our shuttle out the next morning. We actually missed double checking what time we were being picked up and half packed before going into round two together and passing out…
I naturally woke up way earlier than other mornings. I stayed in bed thinking we were still good for time when I had a huge urge to check the shuttle time. I took it out of the safe and my heart dropped when I saw we had to leave in one hour – not 3 like we both assumed. I woke James up instantly and we whirlwind packed with horrible hangovers. We only had time to grab pastries in the buffet before we checked out and loaded our stuff onto the shuttle. I cried to be leaving the wonderful place where we had so much fun and growth together, and, also cried because I was mad we were leaving way earlier and couldn’t say bye to everyone.
We had a long day of travel before making it home at around 2AM the next morning. Looking back, we wouldn’t have changed anything about what we did. We experienced every side you could to Hedonism; from the party times, to the slow times, to getting your period. I hope our experience provides you with enough information to get out there with your partner and experience your sexuality together!