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TAARA & JAMES

Open Relationship Educators.

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International Speakers.

Trauma-Informed.

Free Spirits. Hedonists. Eccentric.

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NON MONOGAMY - sparking DEEPER connections, STEAMY encounters, and UNFORGETTABLE experiences, while keeping it safe & sexy!!!.

Somatic Sex Coaching & Sexological Bodywork

Somatic Sex Education (SSE) is a trauma-informed, client-led approach that bridges the gap between therapy and bodywork. This work is rooted in pleasure-based healing, using neuroplasticity to rewire patterns and deepen your connection to yourself. Through a mix of guided exploration, somatic practices, and (when appropriate) hands-on support, I help you map, reclaim, and expand your experience of pleasure.

I offer in-person sessions in my private Calgary studio and virtual coaching for those outside the area. Some of the experiences we can explore together include:

- Genital & Pelvic Dearmouring (healing from emotional, religious, physical & sexual trauma)
- Pleasure Mapping & Direct Pleasure Awareness
- Orgasm Coaching & Masturbation Support
- Desire & Fantasy Exploration
- Erotic Massage & Touch for Couples
- Non-Monogamy & Open Relationship Coaching
- Empowered Choice, Voice & Boundaries
…and so much more.

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Non-monogamy is about embracing openness, authenticity, and intentional connection in your relationships. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach—each dynamic is uniquely defined by you and your partners, rooted in communication, consent, and mutual respect.

With a strong foundation of self-awareness, trust, and clear agreements, non-monogamy can be a path to deeper intimacy, personal growth, and meaningful, life-changing connections. It’s an opportunity to honor your desires, explore your sacred sexual energy, and build relationships that truly align with who you are.

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Saw this meme the other day:⁠
“You’re due for a date night — plus getting slutted out afterwards.”⁠
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And honestly… I felt that 😏⁠
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Because here’s the thing, our YYC Socials are the perfect date night idea. You and your partner get to dress up, sip something tasty, meet new people, flirt a little (or a lot), and reconnect with each other in that playful, turned-on way.⁠
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James and I always joke that our socials double as foreplay! We come home buzzing, full of energy, and ready to keep the connection going 😈⁠
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So if you’ve been craving a little spark, novelty, or just a night that makes you feel alive together again… come to the February 19th Flirt & Flow Social.⁠
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You’ll meet other open-minded folks, have real conversations, and maybe… head home feeling extra inspired.⁠
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No pressure, no expectations- just good vibes, good people, and maybe a very good night after.⁠
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This event always fill fast, so don’t wait to snag your spot!⁠
Link in bio for tickets or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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Opening our relationship wasn’t a single decision. It was (and still is) a long, honest conversation. One that I keep returning to as I grow, change, and meet new edges. Non-monogamy didn’t create challenges in our relationship...it revealed the ones that were already there and invited us to meet them with more presence, accountability, and care.⁠
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What surprised me most wasn’t the logistics of multiple connections, it was how deeply this path asked me to know my own body, desires, and limits. To name jealousy without shame. To feel fear without outsourcing it. To ask for reassurance without collapsing into control. These are the same skills I now support clients in cultivating because desire doesn’t thrive in avoidance, and intimacy doesn’t deepen without honesty.⁠
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Somatic sex education offers a different path. One that centers pleasure instead of performance, curiosity instead of correction, and consent as a lived, embodied experience, not just a concept. Through practices like genital dearmouring, boundary and consent work, and nervous-system-led exploration, clients often reconnect to parts of themselves that have been quiet for a long time.⁠
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As a queer, non-monogamous practitioner, I hold space for identities and relationship structures that are often misunderstood or overlooked in traditional therapeutic models. My work is trauma-informed, client-led, and rooted in the belief that sexual wholeness comes from learning how to be in relationship with yourself first. Your sensations, your desires, your no’s, and your yeses.⁠
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Non-monogamy didn’t just change my relationship...it clarified my purpose! It deepened my commitment to this work and reminded me, again and again, that liberation begins in the body.⁠
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If you’re navigating non-monogamy, questioning old narratives about “normal,” or longing to feel more at home in your pleasure and your boundaries, I’d love to support you.⁠
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You know that meme about finger play being the difference between summoning a genie vs stuffing a chicken? 😅⁠
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It’s funny because it’s true… and also because most of us were never taught how to slow down, listen, communicate, or actually feel what’s happening in our bodies.⁠
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Pleasure isn’t about doing more...it’s about exploring outside the box!⁠
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In my work as a somatic sex coach, I see this all the time:⁠
• Touch that’s rushed instead of curious⁠
• Technique without attunement⁠
• Performance instead of presence⁠
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When touch is disconnected, the body often goes numb or overwhelmed. When touch is slow, responsive, and consent-led, the body opens. Pleasure deepens. Desire stays online.⁠
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And let’s talk about aftercare for a second, because that last meme? Aftercare is what helps the nervous system integrate pleasure, intensity, and connection. It’s what tells the body, “That was safe. That was good. You’re held.”⁠
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Whether it’s cuddling, water, checking in, or simply staying present, aftercare is part of the erotic arc!⁠
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Pleasure thrives when the body feels listened to.⁠
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If you want sex that feels alive, connected, and nourishing- start with slowing down, asking better questions, and letting sensation lead.⁠
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And yes… sometimes that means going again!!!⁠
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Nothing is more erotic than safety.⁠
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Not the rush.⁠
Not the edge.⁠
Not even the taboo.⁠
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Safety is the root system.⁠
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In my work as a somatic sex coach, I see this again and again: when the body feels truly held, not rushed, not performed for, not overridden, something deeper opens. Breath slows. Sensation sharpens. Desire becomes honest.⁠
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Eroticism doesn’t only live in the light.⁠
It often wants to play with the shadows...old fears, fantasies that feel edgy, themes that once held shame or confusion. When safety is present, the nervous system knows: I can explore this without being re-wounded.⁠
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Safety isn’t the opposite of risk..⁠
it’s what allows us to touch risk without losing ourselves.⁠
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When we are rooted in safety, the body knows how to return.⁠
And that’s what makes surrender possible.⁠
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✨ Safety is the container.⁠
✨ Safety is the anchor.⁠
✨ Safety is what lets us go all the way in and come back whole.⁠
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Ready to turn up the connection and let the night unfold with ease? Our next YYC Social is inviting you into a playful, low-pressure evening designed to spark conversation, curiosity, and a little delicious flirtation.⁠
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Join us in downtown Calgary as we gather Calgary’s non-monogamous, queer, and sex-positive communities for a night of mingling, laughter, and organic connection. This one is all about flow! Letting conversations unfold naturally, following what feels good, and giving yourself permission to flirt (or not!) at your own pace.⁠
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Come solo, partnered, or with friends! You’ll be welcomed into a warm, inclusive space where you can be yourself.⁠
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🌟 What to Expect⁠
• Flirt & Flow Cards: when you check in, you’ll receive a card with a gentle, playful invitation designed to spark connection (think conversation prompts, curiosity questions, or light-hearted flirt cues). Participate as much or as little as you like.⁠
• A relaxed, no-pressure environment to mingle, chat, and meet new folks without the overwhelm of clubs, dungeons, or large-scale takeovers.⁠
• A private side area reserved just for our group, giving us space to connect comfortably.⁠
• Delicious beer, cocktails, and food available for purchase all evening.⁠
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💫 What is Flirt & Flow?⁠
It’s not a game you have to “win”, it’s an invitation! The cards are simply there to help break the ice, open conversations, and encourage organic moments of connection. You’re always in charge of your boundaries, your pace, and how you engage.⁠
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📦 Community Giving:⁠
We continue to support the We Are Maud Foundation in their mission to end period poverty. Guests are encouraged to bring unopened boxes of menstrual hygiene products to donate. Every little bit helps!⁠
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Downtown Calgary⁠
venue will have a private area for our event⁠
full cocktail, beer and food menu available⁠
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LINK IN BIO TO JOIN!⁠
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So many of my clients come to me carrying shame about their bodies, believing they need to look a certain way before they can feel desirable, confident, or fully in their pleasure.⁠
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But here’s the truth: pleasure isn’t reserved for one body type. It’s not earned through perfection.⁠
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In somatic work, I often see how tension, numbness, or disconnection in the body is linked to years of internalized messages about how we “should” look. A client once shared how she avoided intimacy because she couldn’t relax, constantly worrying about how her stomach looked. Together, we practiced gentle body-based exercises to rebuild safety, slowing down, bringing presence to her breath, and exploring touch that wasn’t performative, but deeply felt.⁠
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Over time, she began to notice something beautiful: her body wasn’t an obstacle to pleasure, it was the gateway to it.⁠
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If this speaks to you, and you’re ready to deepen your connection with your body and pleasure, this is the work I do every day with clients. You don’t have to do it alone.⁠
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DM me or visit the link in my bio to learn more about somatic sex coaching and how it can support your relationship with your body.⁠
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One of the most empowering parts of my work as a somatic sex coach is helping clients practice their safer sex conversations.⁠
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I’ve sat with clients as they role-played asking a new play partner, “When were you last tested?” or saying, “I’d like to use barriers tonight, what are you feeling about that?”⁠
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For many, these moments bring up a lot: fear of rejection, embarrassment, even guilt. And that makes sense, most of us were never taught how to talk about sexual health with confidence and compassion.⁠
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But here’s the truth: knowing your status, asking questions, and using protection isn’t awkward...it’s intimacy in action!⁠
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A few things I always remind clients:⁠
✨ Get tested regularly. Every 2–3 months is a good rhythm if you’re sexually active with multiple partners. Think of it as part of your erotic hygiene, not punishment, but self-respect.⁠
✨ Start the conversation early. You don’t need to wait until things are heating up. A simple “Hey, when was your last test?” or “What does safer sex look like for you?” opens the door beautifully.⁠
✨ Know that testing ≠ cleanliness. STIs aren’t “dirty”! They’re a normal part of being a sexual human. What matters most is how we care for ourselves and each other.⁠
✨ Use barriers when needed. Condoms, gloves, and dental dams aren’t buzzkills; they’re boundaries that make more pleasure possible by helping your body feel safe.⁠
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In sessions, I often see the shift that happens when clients realize they can have these conversations without fear. Their bodies relax, their confidence grows, and sex becomes a space of curiosity rather than anxiety.⁠
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Sexual health is community care. When you ask, share, and test, you’re creating a safer erotic landscape for yourself and everyone you touch.⁠
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If you’ve been wanting to feel more confident talking about safer sex or exploring non-monogamy, this is something we can absolutely work on together in session.⁠
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💌 DM me to learn more or visit the link in my bio to book a discovery call.⁠
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Back in 2016, we started hosting the YYC Socials for a very simple reason:⁠
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There weren’t many places where you could show up as yourself (curious, open-minded, non-monogamous, queer, sex-positive) without it being a play party, a dungeon, or a loud, overwhelming takeover or club.⁠
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Not everyone wants their first point of connection to be an adult club.⁠
Not everyone feels comfortable jumping straight into kink spaces.⁠
And not everyone wants to navigate dark rooms, high intensity, or sexual expectations just to meet people.⁠
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So we created something different.⁠
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A safe, friendly, low-pressure space where connection is nurtured.⁠
Where conversation matters.⁠
Where you can actually hear each other talk.⁠
Where flirting is welcome, but never required.⁠
Where community comes first.⁠
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That’s what the YYC Social has always been about.⁠
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Over the years, we’ve watched friendships form, relationships blossom, support systems grow, and people finally feel like they belong...sometimes for the very first time.⁠
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If you’ve ever wanted a place to ease in, to network, to build community, or simply to exist in your non-monogamy without having to explain it… this is why we do what we do.⁠
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And we’re still here NINE YEARS LATER because community keeps showing up 💜⁠
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Link in bio to join! our next Social on January 22nd!!!⁠
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This one’s for you, Calgary!!! FREE YYC SOCIAL on JANUARY 22nd! CUSTOMER APPRECIATION NIGHT!⁠
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We’re turning our upcoming YYC Social into a Customer Appreciation Social, which means TICKETS ARE FREE thanks to NU Lifestyle sponsoring the night. 🥂✨⁠
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All you have to do is RSVP on the NU website (or send me a message on NU), and you’ll receive an email confirming your ticket has been fully COMPED.⁠
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What’s in store:⁠
• Mingling with open-minded, sex-positive, queer & non-monogamous folks⁠
• Mini golf, arcade games, virtual golf & pool⁠
• A relaxed, no-pressure environment to connect and socialize⁠
• Two pool tables on us for the evening 🎱⁠
• Full bar + food menu available⁠
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📍 Where: South Calgary (private side area)⁠
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If you run into any issues with RSVP, just email me and I’ll help get it sorted.⁠
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Come celebrate community, connection, and a night of fun on us!⁠
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As 2026 weaves its way into my life, I’m feeling deeply reflective (and a little emotional!) about everything that unfolded in 2025.⁠
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This year asked me to expand.⁠
My capacity.⁠
My voice.⁠
My nervous system.⁠
My trust in myself and in my work.⁠
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In my business, I had the honor of supporting so many humans through some of the most vulnerable, brave, and tender moments of their lives. I watched clients learn how to feel again, not just pleasure, but safety, clarity, boundaries, and self-trust. I witnessed bodies soften, voices strengthen, and long-held patterns finally begin to unwind.⁠
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And behind the scenes?⁠
There was a lot of nervous system work.⁠
A lot of choosing rest instead of burnout.⁠
A lot of unlearning “push harder” and practicing “listen deeper.”⁠
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To every client who trusted me this year: thank you.⁠
To every person who attended a workshop, sent a message, shared a post, or quietly followed along, you matter more than you know.⁠
And to my own body: thank you for staying, softening, and continuing to teach me.⁠
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Here’s to 2026!!! More capacity, more embodiment, more pleasure, more honesty, and more choosing what actually feels right.⁠
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The holidays can be tender, beautiful, complicated, and everything in between.⁠
May you find moments of ease, safety, and softness wherever you can.⁠
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A gentle reminder this season:⁠
✨ rest is productive⁠
✨ pleasure is allowed⁠
✨ you don’t owe anyone a performance⁠
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Sending love tonight⁠
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One of the biggest truths I’ve learned personally and through working with clients, is that intimacy isn’t just about touch, sex, or chemistry. At its core, intimacy is built on understanding.⁠
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When couples come to me exploring non-monogamy (or simply wanting to deepen their connection), the real work often starts with slowing down enough to:⁠
✨ Name desires without shame⁠
✨ Speak limits clearly and kindly⁠
✨ Stay open to the uncomfortable moments, like rejection or misunderstandings⁠
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I recently had a client share how scared they felt about telling their partner a fantasy they’d held for years. Through practicing body-based communication tools, they discovered that their nervous system could stay regulated even while being vulnerable. When they finally shared, the conversation didn’t push their partner away, it created more closeness and trust.⁠
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And here’s the thing: in non-monogamy, this kind of communication doesn’t just stop with your primary partner(s). It extends to play partners, lovers, and your wider erotic network. Clear communication isn’t just about preventing harm, it’s what transforms hookups, playdates, and fantasies into experiences that feel safe, expansive, and deeply pleasurable.⁠
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Communication is not a one-time “we talked about it” box to check off. It’s an ongoing, living practice that grows alongside your relationships. The more you return to it, with curiosity and honesty, the more spacious your connections become.⁠
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💌 If you’re navigating non-monogamy and want support in creating stronger foundations for intimacy, connection, and pleasure, I’d love to work with you. Link in bio.⁠
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My last trip of 2025, and honestly… I couldn’t have planned a better ending!⁠
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When your friend says “come visit me in Montreal,” you do it!!! It had been nearly 20 years since I was last in this city, and experiencing it again during the magic of the holiday season felt extra special.⁠
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This trip was such a gift because it was pure pleasure. No workshops, no hosting, no schedules to manage...just a rare, much-needed girly trip where we got to wander, get sexy, eat incredible food, admire architecture, follow our curiosities, and move at the deliciously slower pace Montreal seems to invite.⁠
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As someone who teaches pleasure for a living, I couldn’t help but notice how embodied this city feels. Pleasure here isn’t rushed. It’s savored. From long meals to cozy cafés to late-night adventures, it felt like a place that truly prioritizes enjoying life.⁠
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And yes… we also had an incredibly gay time together 🌈💅🏼✨ SO much laughter, sweetness, flirtation, and hottness!! Getting to spend one-on-one time with my girly, soaking in beauty, queerness, and connection, filled my cup in a way I didn’t even realize I needed.⁠
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I left feeling completely in love with Montreal. Here’s hoping I get to return again soon!!!⁠
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As I’ve deepened in my work as a somatic sex coach, one thing I hear again and again from clients (especially those healing from trauma) is how much their sense of attraction has changed.⁠
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They’re no longer drawn to the people who create chaos or intensity… they’re drawn to people who make their nervous system exhale.⁠
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And I am going to be honest when I share that I’ve noticed this shift in MY OWN body too!⁠
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To someone who offers empathy instead of judgment.⁠
To someone who’s warm, soft, and emotionally available.⁠
To someone who values depth, not performance / connection, not conquest.⁠
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And honestly? That’s the body remembering safety.⁠
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When we grow up in environments where love felt inconsistent or unsafe, our wiring often confuses familiarity with chemistry. The rollercoaster feels exciting until it burns us out. Through somatic work, I help clients retrain their bodies to recognize that safety, slowness, and care can also be sexy.⁠
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It’s in the moments when someone listens deeply.⁠
When a partner’s touch feels attuned, not performative.⁠
When you don’t have to chase attention because you can finally rest in connection.⁠
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That’s real eroticism. That’s relational safety. 💞⁠
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If you’ve ever felt drawn to people who leave your body in a state of tension or uncertainty, this is your invitation to re-pattern attraction, to find the people (and experiences) that let your whole body breathe.⁠
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Curious about how somatic work can help you do that? Let’s talk!⁠
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Over the past three years, I’ve worked with so many clients who came to me feeling “broken,” “abnormal,” or “disconnected” from their sexuality. They often start by saying things like:⁠
“I just want to feel normal again.”⁠
“Why can’t my body respond the way it used to?”⁠
“Something must be wrong with me.”⁠
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And I get it. We live in a world that teaches us there’s a right way to do sex, a normal way to feel desire, and a standard way our bodies should respond. But the truth? There is no “normal” when it comes to sexuality. There’s only what’s true for you.⁠
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This is where somatic sex education offers something radically different. Instead of “fixing” or “normalizing,” we listen to the body. We explore the stories, sensations, and experiences that have shaped your relationship with pleasure.⁠
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In my work, this often includes genital dearmouring: a powerful process that supports the body in releasing tension, numbness, or pain that can form from past experiences, cultural conditioning, or lack of authentic sexual expression. I’ve witnessed clients rediscover deep sensitivity, reconnect with their desires, and learn to trust their arousal again, sometimes for the first time in years.⁠
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Somatic sex education invites you to:⁠
✨ Reclaim pleasure on your terms.⁠
✨ Understand your body’s unique language.⁠
✨ Explore connection beyond performance or expectation.⁠
✨ Cultivate authentic, embodied consent. Both with yourself and others.⁠
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This work isn’t about fitting into a mold of what sex “should” look like, it’s about remembering your natural erotic aliveness.⁠
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If you’ve been curious about what this kind of work could look like for you, I invite you to reach out. Let’s explore how we can help your body feel safe, open, and alive again.⁠
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💌 DM me to start your journey toward deeper embodiment and erotic liberation.⁠
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I’m finally caught up after coming home from the Whistler Winter Lifestyle Hotel Takeover and… WOW. Every year this event blows me away, but this year felt extra special. This is hands-down my favorite takeover, and I’m so grateful I could make it work in my schedule again.⁠
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The organizers truly think of everything: daytime workshops, thoughtfully curated playrooms, nakie hot tubs and pool, low-key meet & greets, late-night dance floors and little intentional touches everywhere that make 400+ guests feel held, safe, and excited to explore.⁠
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One of my favorite things about this particular event? People know how to have fun without overconsuming! It creates such a grounded, embodied atmosphere! Playful, sexy, connective, AND respectful.⁠
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This year also had a new twist for me…⁠
My hubby couldn’t arrive until late on Day 2, so for the first part of the weekend it was just me and a partner I’ve been getting deliciously cozy with 😈⁠
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Navigating a big lifestyle event with multiple relationships is something I support clients through all the time, but living it myself always reminds me why communication is the backbone of non-monogamy.⁠
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There were definitely nerves going in… a new dynamic, a new rhythm, a new way of moving together through a space that’s designed to turn the heat up.⁠
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But honestly? It was amazing!!!⁠
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And once my husband arrived on the second night, the three of us had an absolutely incredible time. I truly felt like the belle of the ball with these two hotties on each arm.⁠
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If you’ve ever wondered whether you should attend the Whistler takeover…⁠
Let this be your sign for 2026: do it. You will NOT regret it!!!⁠
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And if you’re craving something closer to home, the organizer is teaming up with NU Lifestyle to host a one-night NYE takeover in Calgary, and it’s going to be a vibe. I’ve shared the details below for anyone curious.⁠
https://swingeropenpoly.com/nunye/⁠
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OK, I’ll be honest…I wasn’t expecting to be this impressed by a pillow.

I get a lot of offers to test products, and this one caught my eye mostly because I was getting tired of using my everyday pillows during sexy time, only to sleep on them later LOL 👀

But from the moment the Quiver pillow arrived, I was pleasantly surprised! The packaging was beautiful and intentional, and it already felt like a product created with care.

Once I unboxed it, I realized just how this product was! As a Somatic Sex Educator, comfort and access are everything. Often, pelvic access on the massage table can be tricky depending on someone’s mobility, pain levels, or body mechanics. This pillow offers support, ease, and better positioning for clients all while feeling plush, soft, and genuinely comfortable!

And then I brought it to my own bed…

I have lower back and hip pain from impingements, and being folded into a pretzel sometimes hurts! But with the Quiver pillow? My hips felt supported, my lower back relaxed, and I could actually sink into pleasure instead of bracing.

You’ll see in the photos- I tried out a few different positions fully clothed (gotta keep the IG police happy 😂), and it blew me away how versatile this pillow is. It works for intimacy, for relaxation, for watching TV, for cozy comfort…very multi-use.

It’s lightweight, easy to travel with, and simple to keep clean. And I love that it’s designed right here in Canada!

But what I appreciate most is the accessibility piece.
So many people experience chronic pain, mobility limitations, hip or back issues AND having a tool that reduces strain while increasing pleasure is a complete game-changer. More comfort = more presence, more connection, and more pleasure.

From professional use to personal use, this pillow checks so many boxes! I’m genuinely impressed, and excited to weave it into both my practice and my own sexy shenanigans.

@QuiverPlayOfficial well done!

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When I first began training in genital dearmouring, I was fascinated by the theory: how the body stores tension, pain, and shame, and how intentional touch and consent-based practices can help release it.⁠
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Now, nearly 2 years into working with clients, I’ve witnessed the living proof of this work.⁠
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Here’s what I’ve seen again and again in sessions:⁠
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Many of us carry “armoring” - places in the body that feel numb, tense, painful, or shut down. This often comes from trauma, stress, or years of overriding our authentic desires. With gentle, body-led practices, I’ve seen clients move from bracing and disconnect… to softening, breathing, and finally feeling more at home in their bodies.⁠
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Touch imprints from our earliest experiences shape how safe (or unsafe) we feel in intimacy. Through slow, attuned touch and voice practices, clients begin to rewire those imprints. The body learns: “I will only receive what I want.” That shift creates space for more pleasure, more trust, and deeper intimacy with self and others.⁠
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One of the most healing parts of this work is helping clients find their voice. Saying “yes,” “no,” or “slower” while being listened to without question can be life-changing. I’ve seen clients tear up simply from the relief of being heard and honored in their boundaries.⁠
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Clients come to me for many reasons:⁠
✨ Pain during intercourse⁠
✨ Difficulty orgasming or feeling pleasure⁠
✨ Religious or cultural conditioning around sex⁠
✨ Wanting to feel safer, more confident, and more alive in their erotic selves⁠
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Every story is different, but the common thread is this: when the body feels safe, it opens. And when it opens, healing and pleasure become possible.⁠
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This work isn’t about fixing you, it’s about helping your body remember its own wisdom.⁠
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If you’ve been longing to feel more connected, more alive, and more empowered in your erotic body, this might be the invitation you’ve been waiting for.⁠
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(Link in bio to learn more)⁠
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#GenitalDearmouring #SomaticSexEducation #TraumaHealing #BodyWisdom #EroticHealing #PleasureIsHealing #ConsentCulture #SexualWellness

Something I’ve noticed, especially in non-monogamous spaces, is the belief that because women are “nurturing,” “safe,” or “less threatening,” they can’t violate consent. But that’s simply not true.⁠
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👉 Consent violations don’t only happen through aggression. They can happen through:⁠
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Touching someone without asking because “it’s just a hug.”⁠
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Assuming another woman at a play party wants to be touched because she’s dressed sexy or seems flirty.⁠
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Continuing to cuddle, kiss, or escalate after someone’s body has gone still-even if they haven’t said “no” out loud.⁠
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In my work as a somatic sex coach, I’ve supported women who realized (with a lot of compassion for themselves) that they had crossed boundaries in the past. Not because they wanted to harm, but because no one ever taught them that their touch also needs consent.⁠
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One client told me: “I thought I was always the safe one… until I noticed how many times I assumed others wanted what I wanted.” That moment of awareness became such a powerful doorway into deeper, more embodied consent.⁠
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Consent is not about gender-it’s about presence, curiosity, and respect. Whether you’re giving or receiving, your role in honoring boundaries is vital.⁠
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Non-monogamous spaces thrive when EVERYONE treats consent as sacred. That’s how we co-create safety, trust, and ultimately, more pleasure.⁠
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👉 Have you ever noticed the subtle ways consent can be crossed, even with the best intentions?⁠
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#ConsentCulture #WomenAndConsent #NonMonogamyEducation #BoundariesMatter #SomaticSexEducation #EmbodiedConsent #EthicalNonMonogamy

When you want to have multiple partners…⁠
but you hate going on first dates 😩💅⁠
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We got you.⁠
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Skip the awkward small talk and dive straight into meaningful, flirty, and actually fun conversations at our YYC Social: Speed Meet⁠
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This isn’t your average speed dating night...it’s a relaxed, inclusive evening designed for Calgary’s non-monogamous, queer, and sex-positive community.⁠
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When: Thursday, November 20 | 7:30–10:30 PM | Downtown Calgary⁠
Meet people. Make connections. Maybe even spark a little chemistry.⁠
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Because who says “first meetings” have to suck?⁠
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This event always fill fast, so don’t wait to snag your spot!⁠
Link in bio for tickets or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCEvents #YYCLifestyle #NonMonogamous #PolyamoryCommunity #KinkyAndKind #SexPositiveYYC #MeetCute #OpenRelationshipGoals #SpeedMeet #ConnectionBeforePlay #YYCNightlife #FlirtyAndFun

Ever been more turned on by a couple’s connection than by just one of them?⁠
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That might mean you’re symbiosexual! Someone who’s drawn to the energy between two (or more) people, not just the individuals themselves.⁠
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I’ve seen this come up so often in non-monogamous spaces and play party settings. Sometimes, clients share stories like, “I wasn’t as into either of them separately… but together, their chemistry was magnetic.”⁠
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As a somatic sex coach, I love exploring this kind of attraction because it often reveals how deeply we respond to relational energy. Our bodies are constantly reading cues of connection, trust, play, and pleasure between others. That aliveness, the shared laughter, the subtle glances, the ease between two people... it can awaken something primal in us.⁠
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And in many ways, this is what somatic awareness teaches us: attraction and arousal don’t exist in isolation. They’re relational experiences. They’re about how our nervous system feels in response to the field between others, not just physical traits.⁠
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So if you’ve ever found yourself captivated by a couple’s vibe, not necessarily wanting to “join in,” but just soaking in their connection, you’re not weird or voyeuristic. You might just be tuning in to a beautiful form of symbiosexuality.⁠
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Curious to explore the nuances of attraction, desire, and energetic connection in your own body? This is the kind of exploration I love guiding clients through!⁠
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#Symbiosexuality #SomaticSexEducation #EroticIntelligence #DesireMapping #NonMonogamy #ConsciousSexuality #SexPositiveEducation #EmbodiedDesire #PleasureIsMedicine

Our Oktoberfest Social was one for the books!⁠
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Between the pretzel bites, spicy bingo, and a sea of smiling faces, it was such a beautiful reminder of what makes this community so special. Forty people showed up; chatting, laughing, flirting, and forming new friendships in that effortless, heart-open way that only happens when everyone feels safe to be themselves.⁠
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And honestly? That’s the magic of the YYC Social. It’s not about play or performance, it’s about connection, curiosity, and belonging.⁠
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Our next event is on Thursday, November 20th: The Speed Meet Edition!⁠
You’ll rotate through short, guided conversations (with the ever-charming James as MC), followed by open mingling and drinks. Think “speed dating,” but for community.⁠
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If you missed Oktoberfest, this is your chance to jump in and experience the magic for yourself.⁠
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No pressure. No play. Just people connecting, laughing, and being human together.⁠
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This event always fill fast, so don’t wait to snag your spot!⁠
Link in bio for tickets or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCLifestyleCommunity #NonMonogamousLife #CalgaryEvents #QueerCommunityYYC #KinkyAndKind #SexPositiveSpaces #ConsentCulture #CommunityOverCompetition #PleasurePositive #YYCLove #OktoberfestVibes #ConnectionMatters

Okay, real talk...where has this blanket been all my life?!?⁠
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You know those nights that start with a little touch, a little teasing… and next thing you know, the bed looks like a scene straight out of a very wet romance novel? Yeah, that’s exactly why I’m in love with the @myloveblanket
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It’s plush, soft, and sexy BUT also practical. Completely waterproof and machine washable, which means no more post-pleasure cleanup or towel towers. Toss it in the wash, pour yourself some water (because hydration is foreplay), and bask in that afterglow. 💦⁠
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But here’s what surprised me most...this blanket isn’t just amazing in my personal life. It’s also become a beautiful addition to my professional practice as a somatic sex educator. Sometimes, clients request touch sessions as part of their healing or embodiment journey, and having a cozy, body-safe, waterproof layer for my table has been a total game changer!⁠
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It keeps the space feeling soft and protected-creating a sense of comfort that’s essential when working with the body.⁠
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Honestly, it’s rare to find a product that fits so seamlessly into both my pleasure life and my professional world!⁠
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You can grab yours at love-blanket.com⁠
and use TAARA10 for 10% off your own.⁠
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It’s time for one of our most-loved socials to make a comeback!!!⁠
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✨ YYC Social: The Speed Meet Edition ✨⁠
Thursday, November 20 | 7:30 PM | Downtown Calgary⁠
Tickets $20/couple // $15/single⁠
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If you’ve been craving new connections in Calgary’s non-monogamous, queer, and sex-positive communities, this is the one to join.⁠
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Our Speed Meet is part social mixer, part conversation adventure. Think of it like a fast-paced friend-date night where you’ll rotate through 10–12 mini meetups, guided by our incredible MC, James, who keeps things fun, flirty, and full of laughter.⁠
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After the speed meet rounds, stick around for drinks, mingling, and plenty of time to keep the chats (and chemistry) flowing.⁠
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💜 No play, no pressure. Just authentic connection and community.⁠
💌 Bring unopened menstrual products to support our ongoing partnership with the We Are Maud Foundation and their Period Prosperity Campaign.⁠
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This event always fill fast, so don’t wait to snag your spot!⁠
Link in bio for tickets or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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The countdown is ON… our Oktoberfest YYC Social is just TWO DAYS away!⁠
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We’ve got:⁠
🥨 Pretzel bites to snack on⁠
🍺 A free beer for anyone who completes their Spicy Bingo card⁠
🎶 Flirty, fabulous vibes all night long⁠
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This isn’t just about the fun (though there will be LOTS of that!), it’s also about coming together as a sex-positive, non-monogamous, and queer-friendly community where everyone is welcome.⁠
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📅 Thursday, Oct 16⁠
🕢 7:30 PM⁠
📍 Downtown Calgary⁠
💸 $10/person⁠
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We’re almost there, and you won’t want to miss this one. Grab your ticket, find your lederhosen (optional but encouraged), and let’s make it a night to remember!⁠
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Link in bio or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCEvents #OktoberfestYYC #YYCNightlife #YYCCommunity #SexPositiveYYC #NonMonogamyYYC #YYCLove #YYCSocialScene

Mark your calendars! Our next YYC Social is happening Thursday, October 16th and we’re celebrating with an Oktoberfest theme!!! Pretzel bites, spicy bingo, and community connection all night long.⁠
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But beyond the fun, one of the things that makes these socials so special is how this community continues to show up for one another. Since we brought the Socials back, we’ve invited guests to bring unopened menstrual products to support the We Are Maud Foundation’s Period Prosperity campaign...and together we’ve already donated over 50 items!⁠
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Your generosity is making a real impact. Menstrual products aren’t a luxury, they’re a necessity. And thanks to you, more folks in Calgary can access what they need with dignity.⁠
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So join us for pretzels, beers, bingo, and connection on October 16th! And if you’re able, bring along a box of pads, tampons, diva cups or liners to keep the momentum going. Together, we’re building community AND making a difference.⁠
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💜 Prost & see you soon!⁠
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#YYCSocial #OktoberfestYYC #YYCEvents #YYCNightlife #YYCCommunity #SexPositiveYYC #NonMonogamyYYC #YYCLove #YYCSocialScene #YYCSexPositive #PeriodProsperity #EndPeriodPoverty #MenstrualEquity #CommunityCareYYC

We often think of safety in the bedroom as condoms, lube, or consent conversations (and yes, those matter). But safety is also deeply emotional and relational.⁠
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If you don’t feel seen, heard, or understood in your relationship (with lovers, fwb, partners, etc.), your body will have a hard time fully letting go during intimacy. Desire doesn’t thrive in an environment where your nervous system is on edge.⁠
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If your partner often blows up at you, dismisses your opinions, or leaves you carrying the emotional labor at home, your body is likely clocking that stress...even if your mind is telling you to “just relax and enjoy.”⁠
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In my work as a somatic sex educator, I see this all the time. A client once shared how she couldn’t “orgasm on demand” with her partner, no matter how hard she tried. When we unpacked it together, she realized her body didn’t feel safe because she was always walking on eggshells around his temper. Once she named this truth and they started working on relational safety outside the bedroom, her capacity for pleasure transformed.⁠
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Safety isn’t just sexy! It’s necessary for deep intimacy and ecstatic pleasure.⁠
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If this resonates, I invite you to get curious: where in your relationships do you feel most safe, seen, and cared for? And how does that show up in your sexuality?⁠
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Want support building deeper erotic safety? Let’s work together! Check out the link in my bio.⁠
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INFO MEMES created by the brilliant @sexaully_liberated⁠
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“We used to think we knew each other’s bodies inside and out… until one night, when we slowed down and actually asked.⁠
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What kind of touch feels best here?⁠
Do you want more pressure? Less?⁠
What happens if we linger, instead of rushing to the usual places?⁠
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The answers surprised us. We discovered new spots, new sensations, even new ways of connecting that we’d never thought of after years together.⁠
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That’s what Pleasure Mapping for Couples is all about! Exploring each other with curiosity instead of assumptions. Slowing down, tuning in, and finding the overlooked places that hold so much potential for pleasure and intimacy.⁠
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Julie and I are inviting couples in Calgary to spend 4 playful hours together learning how to turn touch into a language. One that can reignite sparks, deepen intimacy, and create a new roadmap for pleasure.⁠
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Join us for a workshop where you’ll learn practical tools, guided practices, and a whole lot of inspiration to bring back into your own bedroom.”⁠
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📍 Calgary⁠
🗓️ Nov. 22 // 10am-2pm⁠
🔗 Link in bio to save your spot⁠
https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/pleasure-maping-workshop⁠
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One of my favorite moments from our last social was standing back and watching the room...people laughing over karaoke, new friendships sparking at the bar, and that buzzing feeling of being surrounded by folks who just get it.⁠
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That’s the magic of these socials. It’s not just about meeting potential partners (though that happens too 😉), it’s about community, belonging, and having a safe space where you can show up as your whole self.⁠
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This month, we’re leaning into the cozy vibes of Oktoberfest with pints, playful conversations, and (of course) plenty of room for connection. This is the perfect chance to gather, laugh, and remember that intimacy isn’t just about sex - it’s about connection!!!⁠
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📅 When: Thursday, October 16th @ 7:30pm⁠
📍 Where: Downtown YYC⁠
🎉 Theme: Oktoberfest Social!⁠
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Come for the beer & cheer, stay for the friendships and connections!!!⁠
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👉 Tickets are limited, so grab yours now through the link in my bio or visit:⁠
https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCEvents #NonMonogamousCommunity #SexPositiveCalgary #SocialYYC #ConnectionIsSexy #CommunityVibes #OktoberfestYYC

I had to share these memes because they capture SO much of what comes up in my work with clients (and honestly, in my own life too!).⁠
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✨ Expressing Needs & Setting Boundaries⁠
Most of us were never taught how to say what we want, or how to lovingly hold a boundary. I see this all the time in sessions...clients know what they don’t want, but voicing it feels terrifying. That’s where body-based tools come in: practicing saying “yes,” “no,” or “not right now” while staying connected to your body. Boundaries aren’t walls, they’re doorways into deeper trust and intimacy.⁠
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✨ People-Pleasing vs. Authentic Connection⁠
Like that iceberg meme shows being “the nice one” often hides a whole lot of burnout, resentment, and anxiety beneath the surface. In somatic work, we slow down and listen for what’s truly underneath the people-pleasing. Often, it’s the body whispering: I’m tired. I need rest. I need to feel safe before I can open.⁠
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✨ It’s Okay to Want More⁠
I can’t tell you how many women I’ve worked with who carry shame about being “too much”! Too sexual, too loud, too needy. Here’s the truth: your desire is not a burden. It’s an aliveness that deserves to be celebrated. Owning that you want hot, primal sex and tender, soulful love doesn’t make you contradictory, it makes you whole.⁠
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At the heart of this work is permission: permission to notice your needs, speak them out loud, set boundaries, and claim your full, unapologetic desires.⁠
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Which of these memes hit home for you right now? Drop it in the comments, I’d love to hear.⁠
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#SomaticSexEducation #ConsentIsSexy #BoundariesAreSexy #SexPositiveHealing #PleasureIsMedicine #EmbodyYourDesires

People are always surprised when I say I’m actually pretty shy when it comes to sex and intimacy. (I know hard to believe right? 😉)⁠
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The truth is, even as a somatic sex coach who has been studying, practicing, and teaching this for years, I still sometimes get caught in the push-pull of wanting something deeply… but hesitating to name it out loud.⁠
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“Will it be too much?”⁠
“Will they still like me?”⁠
“What if I ruin the mood?”⁠
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Sound familiar? You’re not alone.⁠
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Here’s what I’ve learned from both my personal journey and working with clients:⁠
💗 Desire is valid even when it feels scary to voice. Being shy doesn’t make your needs any less important.⁠
💗 Your nervous system plays a role. Often, shyness is your body’s way of protecting you until it feels safe enough to expand.⁠
💗 Practice builds confidence. Naming what you want (or don’t want) gets easier each time you do it.⁠
💗 Pleasure thrives on clarity. When you trust, value, and name what you desire, you create the conditions for deeper intimacy, safety, and connection.⁠
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One of my clients recently shared that simply practicing saying, “Can we slow down?” during a session changed everything for them. They realized that even a “small ask” was actually a huge step toward reclaiming their voice and their pleasure.⁠
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So yes, I may still be shy… but I’ve also learned the magic that happens when you lean into naming your truth. Because being a sweetheart and a little freak at the same time? That’s where the real fun begins🔥⁠
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Do you struggle with shyness around asking for what you want in bed? Let’s talk about it in the comments.⁠
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#SomaticSexCoach #NameYourDesires #ShyButSpicy #PleasureConfidence #EmbodiedIntimacy #TraumaInformedSexuality #PleasureHealing #AskForWhatYouWant #SexualEmpowerment #PleasureActivism

Last months Karaoke Social was an absolute BLAST! Thank you to the 50+ amazing humans who showed up last week to sing, dance, and cheer each other on...you made it unforgettable!!!⁠
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And guess what? We’re not slowing down…⁠
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👉 The next YYC Social is Thursday, October 16th: Oktoberfest Edition!⁠
We’re gathering in downtown Calgary for a night full of connection, laughs, and a few Oktoberfest-inspired twists.⁠
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Here’s what you can look forward to:⁠
🥨 Complimentary pretzel bites to snack on⁠
🍻 Spicy Bingo – complete your card & win a free beer!⁠
👗 Dress-up fun (lederhosen & dirndl optional, but encouraged!)⁠
✨ A welcoming, no-pressure space to mingle & meet new friends⁠
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If you loved the energy of karaoke night, you won’t want to miss this one. Mark your calendar now! It’s going to be a night to remember!⁠
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Link in bio to join or visit: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocials #YYCEvents #YYCNightOut #YYCCommunity #YYCConnections #YYCMeetup #YYCSocialLife #OktoberfestYYC #SpicyBingo #PretzelsAndBeer #YYCOktoberfest #YYCFun #YYCDrinks #SexPositiveYYC #NonMonogamyCommunity #QueerYYC #YYCLove #YYCInclusive #MarkYourCalendars #YYCThingsToDo #YYCWhatsHappening #YYCSocialScene #YYCLiveItUp

Did you know that nipple and breast stimulation activates the same part of the brain as g3nital stimulation? Research using MRI technology shows what so many women already know: breast and chest touch isn’t just “foreplay”! It can be a pathway to deep arousal and even orgasm.⁠
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When I first experienced a breast/chest massage during my Somatic Sex Educator training, it completely shifted how I related to this part of my body. Instead of the rushed, rough, or performative touch I had been used to, I felt slow, intentional contact... and with it came empowerment, emotional release, and a new sense of freedom in my pleasure.⁠
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Here’s what I often see with clients:⁠
💗 Reconnecting with Sensation: Many people have learned to disconnect from their breasts because of rough handling, shame, or feeling self-conscious about size, shape, or appearance.⁠
💗 Healing the Heart Center: The breasts can be seen as gateways to love and intimacy. Gentle, loving touch here can open emotional and sexual pathways that have been shut down from past hurts.⁠
💗 Rewiring the Nervous System: Through consistent, safe, and attuned touch, the nervous system learns that receiving pleasure here is safe, which can increase overall arousal and expand capacity for orgasm.⁠
💗 Non-Demand Touch: When touch is given without the expectation of sex, it creates space for the body to soften, trust, and awaken.⁠
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One of my clients recently shared that after practicing breast massage for a few weeks, she noticed not only more sensation but also less anxiety about being seen naked by her partner. That’s the power of slowing down and giving this part of the body loving attention.⁠
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So, I invite you to consider: What might open for you if you explored this type of touch. Not as something you “should” do, but as an act of self-love, healing, and deep pleasure?⁠
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💌 Curious about how to begin? Send me a DM and let’s talk about how this practice can be part of your journey back to your body.⁠
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#SomaticSexEducation #PleasureHealing #BreastMassage #EmbodiedIntimacy #TraumaInformed #ReclaimYourPleasure #HolisticSexuality #TantraInspired #SelfLoveJourney #PleasureIsHealing #SexualEmpowerment

The Countdown is ON!!!!⁠
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The Karaoke Takeover is happening TOMORROW, and trust us you don’t want to miss this one! ⁠
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📅 Date: Thursday, Sept. 18, 2025 ⁠
📍 Location: Downtown, Calgary (Address provided after payment) ⁠
💸 Cover: $10/person⁠
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RSVP now before it’s too late! Once we’re full, we’re full!⁠
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🎟️ TICKETS: $10/person⁠
Now powered by NU Lifestyle! No paid membership needed, just make a free account to register:⁠ https://nulifestyle.club/events/205⁠
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Let’s Talk About Playrooms…⁠
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Over the years of coaching, I’ve had countless clients tell me how curious (and sometimes nervous) they felt walking into their first playroom. Whether it was at a lifestyle club, hotel takeover, or even an all-inclusive resort where play is part of the fun. These spaces can feel exciting, liberating, and also a little intimidating.⁠
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No matter how sexy or playful the space, there are a few “Golden Rules” to keep in your back pocket:⁠
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Ask First, Always.⁠
Asking before touching, joining in, or even commenting creates trust and safety. Many of my clients practice this outside the bedroom too, in small everyday moments, so it feels natural when the stakes are higher.⁠
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No = No.⁠
Simple. Clear. Firm. Honoring a “no” without pushback is one of the most respectful and sexiest things you can do.⁠
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Respect the Scene.⁠
Imagine walking into a space where a couple (or group) is fully in their flow. Jumping in without consent disrupts not just the people involved, but the entire energetic container. Wait, ask, and approach with reverence.⁠
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Observe with Care.⁠
Watching can be delicious BUT there’s a way to do it without intruding. Using soft eyes, soft/no commentary, not hovering too close. Think of it as giving space for their energy to breathe.⁠
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Even after more than a decade exploring these communities myself, I still come back to these basics. And when I support clients navigating playrooms, it’s often not about the logistics, it’s about finding the courage to notice, value, and voice what they want (or don’t want). That takes practice, and it’s okay to still feel shy sometimes.⁠
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So, if you’re curious about stepping into your first playroom (or if you’ve been in many) I invite you to carry these ideas with you.⁠
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Are you curious about navigating playrooms or lifestyle spaces with confidence? This is one of my favorite things to support clients with!⁠
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#PlayroomEtiquette #ConsentIsSexy #SexPositiveSpaces #EthicalNonmonogamy #SomaticSexCoach #RelationshipExploration #SexualEmpowerment

When I first started exploring my sexual orientation and identity, I thought I had to have it all figured out before I could talk about it. I thought if I couldn’t explain exactly “what” I was, then I wasn’t valid.⁠
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Spoiler: that’s a lie cisheteronormativity sells us.⁠
You don’t have to prove your sexuality by sharing dating history, having a certain type of partner, or being “out” in the exact way people expect.⁠
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As a somatic sex coach, I’ve learned (and lived) that:⁠
💡 Sexual orientation, gender identity, and gender expression are different things.⁠
💡 Polyamory, queerness, and fluid identities often intersect. And yes, these communities face unique layers of marginalization.⁠
💡 Bisexuality & pansexuality are valid no matter who you’ve dated or slept with.⁠
💡 Sexuality is fluid, and that fluidity is part of the beauty of being human.⁠
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Even though I’ve been studying, teaching, and practicing this work for YEARS, I still have moments of shyness when naming what I want (or don’t want). But I feel in my body how important it is to notice, trust, value, and voice those truth...seven if they shift over time.⁠
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So here’s your reminder: You are allowed to be fluid. You are allowed to change. You are allowed to take your time. And you are allowed to exist exactly as you are without explanation.⁠
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#Pansexual #Polyamory #BisexualVisibility #QueerAndPoly #Nonmonogamy #SexualFluidity #SomaticSexCoach #TraumaInformed #QueerEducation #LGBTQCommunity #SexualityIsFluid #PansexualPride #BodyLedLiving #ShyAndFreaky

We all know that person who grabs the mic and turns karaoke night into their personal concert(…and if you’re thinking “I am that person,” we definitely want you there😉)⁠
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If you’re a seasoned stage diva, a shy shower singer, or just here for the laughs and good vibes our Karaoke Takeover is the perfect chance to kick back, connect, and make some unforgettable memories with the community.⁠
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📅 When: Thursday September 18th⁠
📍 Where: Downtown Karaoke Bar, Calgary⁠
⏰ Time: 7–9pm FULL takeover⁠
💲 Entry: $10⁠
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Now here’s the real question… what song should I sing when I get up there?⁠
Drop your go-to karaoke anthem in the comments or tag a friend who needs to join us!⁠
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Tickets: $10/person⁠
👉 https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#KaraokeTakeover #YYCKaraoke #LifestyleCommunity #FunWithFriends #YYCEvents #SingYourHeartOut #YYCSocial #YYCNightlife #OpenMicVibes

Here’s the thing about STIs that most people don’t realize:⁠
The most common symptom… is no symptom at all.⁠
So when someone says, “I don’t need to test because I’m clean,” my whole body goes ...”EW, no.”⁠
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The truth? Being “clean” isn’t a status...it’s a shame-soaked word that suggests anyone with an STI is “dirty.” And that couldn’t be further from the truth.⁠
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As a somatic sex coach, I support people in unpacking the shame and stigma around sexual health conversations. Because language like this not only spreads misinformation, it keeps us small, fearful, and disconnected from our pleasure.⁠
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Here’s what I teach clients when we talk about sexual health and intimacy:⁠
✨ Replace “I’m clean” with: “I was last tested on [date], and my results were [status].”⁠
✨ Remember that testing isn’t a one-time thing; it’s ongoing care for yourself and your partners.⁠
✨ Talking openly about STIs builds trust, safety, and deeper intimacy. Things our nervous systems crave in order to fully relax into pleasure.⁠
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One of my clients once told me that practicing these conversations out loud (yes, we role-played!) made them feel more empowered and less anxious before dates. Instead of worrying about rejection, they felt grounded in self-respect and able to show up authentically.⁠
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Pleasure grows when safety and honesty are at the center. So if it’s been a while since you last tested, maybe this is your sign!⁠
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#STIAwareness #ShameFreeSex #SomaticSexCoach #SexualHealthMatters #ConsentCulture #PleasureAndSafety #NonMonogamyEducation #SexPositiveEducation #PleasureActivism #EmpoweredIntimacy

“So… is this a play party?”⁠
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It’s a question I get all the time. And the answer (at least for our Socials) is no.⁠
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When we first started hosting these events, we noticed something: many people in the non-monogamous and sex-positive communities wanted a place to connect without the pressure to play. A place where you could just be yourself—chat, laugh, flirt, and make connections at your own pace.⁠
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That’s why we host non-play Socials. They’re about building trust, friendships, and community first. They’re where nervous first-timers can take a deep breath and feel welcome. They’re where long-timers can expand their circles and support others on their journey.⁠
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💜 No pressure.⁠
💜 No expectations.⁠
💜 Just authentic connection and good vibes.⁠
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Because at the end of the day, it’s those real, human connections that make everything else possible.⁠
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Our next chance to connect this way? 👉 September 18th at Bacchus Karaoke Bar. Grab your ticket, grab the mic, and come see why these Socials are quickly becoming the heart of Calgary’s CNM & sex-positive community.⁠
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Tickets: $10/person⁠
👉 https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCLifestyle #YYCEvents #YYCCommunity #YYCLiving #YYCConnection #EthicalNonMonogamy #QueerYYC #OpenRelationships #LoveWithoutLimits #SexEdForTheModernBed #YYCKaraoke #YYCThingsToDo #YYCDateNight #KaraokeNight #SingYourHeartOut #CommunityVibes #MakeNewFriends #KaraokeLovers

When we talk about boundaries, most people think of hard no’s or physical lines in the sand, but there’s actually so much more nuance when it comes to intimacy, desire, and connection.⁠
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In the Wheel of Consent framework, we talk about Domain, Boundaries, and Limits:⁠
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🌿 Domain → What is mine. My body, my feelings, my desires, my inner world. I have a right to them and a responsibility for them.⁠
🌿 Boundary → The edge of that domain. The line where what’s mine ends and what’s not mine begins.⁠
🌿 Limits → What I am available for in this moment. These can change depending on the situation, the person, and even how much sleep I got last night.⁠
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Here’s where it gets tricky (and where so many clients of mine get stuck):⁠
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⚡ When someone tries to cross into our domain emotionally.⁠
👉 Example: You feel a certain way about someone OR a situation, and instead of owning your own feelings, you try to make other people feel that way too.⁠
👉 Or someone has a desire they’re afraid to own, so they pressure (or desire smuggle) you to want it instead of saying it out loud.⁠
👉 Or maybe you’re enjoying yourself and your partner suddenly shuts down your joy because they feel uncomfortable with it.⁠
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These are subtle, but they’re still boundary crossings.⁠
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What I remind my clients is:⁠
💌 You are not responsible for carrying someone else’s feelings or desires.⁠
💌 You do have the right to say no, and you also have the responsibility to say no when something isn’t right for you.⁠
💌 Anger can be a healthy signal that a boundary has been crossed. It’s not something to be ashamed of, but rather a tool that helps protect your domain.⁠
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Remember: the stronger your sense of your own domain, the easier it is to communicate your limits clearly, with love. And the more you can show up authentically for yourself and others.⁠
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💬 I’d love to hear — have you ever noticed someone trying to put their feelings or desires in your domain? How did it feel?⁠
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#WheelOfConsent #BoundariesMatter #SomaticSexEducation #ConsentCulture #HealthyBoundaries #SexualEmpowerment #EmbodiedLiving #PleasureActivism #AuthenticConnection #RelationshipGrowth

I came across this post recently (shared above) and it really hit home.⁠
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“Clique-building is easy… But true community requires deep humility, patience, and the willingness to be in the messy, non-linear process of transformation.”⁠
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This is exactly why we host YYC Socials the way we do.⁠
These aren’t play parties. They’re not about exclusivity or proving you belong. They’re about creating an open, welcoming space where people in Calgary’s non-monogamous, queer, and sex-positive communities can connect authentically WITHOUT pressure.⁠
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💜 No cliques.⁠
💜 No gatekeeping.⁠
💜 Just real conversations, laughter, and the beginnings of friendships (and sometimes more).⁠
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Because true community isn’t built by accident: it’s grown, nurtured, and cared for.⁠
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Our next chance to gather this way? 👉 September 18th at Bacchus Karaoke Bar!!! A full venue takeover with music, laughter, and the kind of energy that reminds you why you showed up in the first place.⁠
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Tickets: $10/person⁠
👉 https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCLifestyle #YYCEvents #YYCCommunity #YYCLiving #YYCConnection #EthicalNonMonogamy #QueerYYC #OpenRelationships #LoveWithoutLimits #SexEdForTheModernBed #YYCKaraoke #YYCThingsToDo #YYCDateNight #KaraokeNight #SingYourHeartOut #CommunityVibes #MakeNewFriends #KaraokeLovers

So many of us spend years feeling disconnected from our own pleasure—caught in cycles of shame, people-pleasing, numbness, or anxiety about sex. I know I did. And learning to come home to my body changed everything.⁠
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That’s the magic of Somatic Sex Education and Sexological Bodywork—modalities rooted in the belief that your body knows. These aren’t quick-fix tips or one-size-fits-all techniques. They’re personalized, consent-based, and trauma-informed practices that support you in rediscovering your body as a source of pleasure, power, and presence.⁠
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Here’s what this might look like in practice:⁠
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💗 A woman reconnects with her vulva after years of avoidance and finds she can feel pleasure again.⁠
🔥 A couple maps each other’s erogenous zones and discovers entirely new ways to touch and be touched.⁠
🌬️ A single client breathes through body shame while learning to say “yes” and “no” with clarity—and means it.⁠
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Because when we stop overriding our bodies and start listening—real change happens.⁠
Your pleasure expands. Your capacity deepens. And your relationship with your sexuality becomes rooted in truth, not obligation.⁠
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Somatic sex work supports you in...⁠
✅ Releasing shame and trauma stored in the body⁠
✅ Learning to feel safe receiving pleasure⁠
✅ Rewiring your nervous system to expand your capacity for sensation and intimacy⁠
✅ Exploring desire, boundaries, and consent in embodied ways⁠
✅ Building body confidence and sexual self-trust⁠
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If you’re feeling the pull to reconnect with your sensual, powerful self—this work is a gentle (and potent) place to begin. I’d be honored to support your journey.⁠
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Send me a message or check the link in my bio to learn more about how we can work together.⁠
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#SomaticSexCoach #SexologicalBodywork #EmbodiedHealing #PleasureIsMedicine #NervousSystemHealing #SexualHealing #BodyWisdom #PleasureEducation #TraumaInformedCare #ReclaimYourPleasure #EroticEmbodiment #SexualEmpowerment #ConsciousSexuality #HolisticSexEd #ConsentCulture #BodyLove #SexPositiveHealing #HealthySexuality #RootedInPleasure #ComingHomeToSelf #FemininePower #SomaticHealing

Let’s talk about threesomes! YES, they can be hot, thrilling, and deeply connective…but also, whew, can they ever surface some real stuff.

I’ve worked with many individuals and couples who were surprised by what came up after their first (or third) threesome. One moment you’re in the middle of a sexy fantasy, and the next, you’re feeling a wave of jealousy, disconnection, insecurity, or shame that you didn’t expect.

What we don’t see in p0rn are the awkward moments, the breaks, the emotions, or the micro-boundaries that are negotiated before, during, and after. In my own life (and in my somatic coaching practice), I’ve learned that threesomes require much more than a “yes” and a bottle of lube.

Here’s what I always remind my clients:

There will be an odd one out. So what does that person do while the other two are connecting? Some sexy options: Masturbating as you watch (yes, be your own erotic show!), Playing “director” and snapping some artistic, consensual photos, Cuddling, caressing, or energetically weaving in from the sidelines before jumping back in
(And of course, all of this needs to be talked about beforehand.)

Breaks are normal. Just because all bodies are in the bed doesn’t mean all bodies have to be “doing” something all the time. Sometimes the hottest part of a threesome is lying there in a messy, sweaty tangle and giggling together for a few minutes.

Safety is hot. Condoms between partners, fresh gloves or finger cots if you’re switching between genitals, and wipes or a trip to the bathroom mid-scene are all acts of respect. You’ll likely go through more condoms than you think (Costco, anyone?) and that’s a good thing.

If you’re curious about group play but unsure how to navigate the emotional (and practical) terrain, I’ve got you. Whether you’re already dabbling or just starting to explore the idea, you don’t have to do it alone.

Send me a DM or book a discovery call to learn more about how I support folks navigating non-monogamy!

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#ThreesomeTips #SomaticSexCoach #GroupPlayWithCare #ConsentIsSexy #PleasureCenteredSex #ThreesomesDoneRight #KinkEducation #EroticEmbodiment #RelationshipGrowth #MindfulGroupSex #SexualHealing #EmbodyDesire

Our next YYC Social is happening Thursday, Sept 18th and we’ve got an entire Karaoke Bar downtown Calgary all to ourselves!!!⁠
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If you’re a shower singer, a stage star, or just wanna cheer folks on, this is your chance to connect with Calgary’s non-monogamous, queer, and sex-positive community in a playful, no-pressure environment.⁠
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Here’s what you can expect:⁠
🎶 A full private takeover of downtown Calgary Karaoke Bar⁠
🍹 Drinks + food available for purchase at the bar⁠
🎤 All the karaoke your heart desires: solos, duets, and group jams welcome!⁠
💜 A safe, welcoming space to laugh, connect & make new friends⁠
📦 Community Giving: Donations for the We Are Maud Foundation appreciated⁠
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Tickets: $10/person⁠
👉 https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/monthly-social⁠
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Don’t wait to snag your ticket! 🎟️⁠
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Let’s fill the night with music, laughter, and that special YYC Social magic. See you September 18th!⁠
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#YYCSocial #YYCLifestyle #YYCEvents #YYCCommunity #YYCLiving #YYCConnection #EthicalNonMonogamy #QueerYYC #OpenRelationships #LoveWithoutLimits #SexEdForTheModernBed #YYCKaraoke #YYCThingsToDo #YYCDateNight #KaraokeNight #SingYourHeartOut #CommunityVibes #MakeNewFriends #KaraokeLovers

Kink isn’t just about playtime or “spicing things up” in the bedroom — for many of us, it’s a powerful avenue for self-discovery, emotional release, and somatic healing.

As a somatic sex coach, I’ve supported individuals and couples who come to kink with curiosity — or with shame — and are surprised to find that within the taboo lies tremendous truth.

Sometimes through power dynamics that we reclaim control we once lost.
Sometimes through pain or surrender that we access long-buried grief or pleasure.
Sometimes the simple act of being seen in our desires that unravels years of internalized shame.

When approached with care, boundaries, and consent, kink becomes more than play — it becomes a ceremony, a release, a reclamation.

Here are a few things to keep in mind if you’re new to kink or exploring it with a partner:

✔️ Negotiate before play. Talk about desires, boundaries, and limits before anything begins. Don’t “up-negotiate” in the middle of a scene.
✔️ Start small. You don’t need to go full dungeon on day one. A silk scarf, a blindfold, or playful spanking can be incredibly potent. Explore, then invest.
✔️ Check in during play. Even if you’ve negotiated ahead of time, checking in (“Does this still feel good?”) keeps things safe and connected.
✔️ Use a safeword. In kink, “No” might be part of the roleplay. A safeword (like “meatloaf” or “red”) gives everyone a clear, immediate stop signal. Use it freely and without shame.
✔️ Aftercare matters. Don’t skip the cuddles, water, or emotional check-ins post-scene. Nervous systems can be highly activated — aftercare is what brings you back together.

A somatic, trauma-informed lens can make your experience safer, richer, and more healing than you ever imagined. Curious? Book a session...

Shoutout to @sexually_liberated for these awesome infographics!

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#SomaticKink #KinkAndHealing #ConsentIsSexy #SomaticSexEducation #KinkPositive #TraumaInformedKink #MindfulKink #BDSMHealing #PowerDynamics #PleasureIsHealing #HealingThroughKink #AftercareMatters #KinkIsNormal #ShameFreePleasure #SacredKink #DiscoverYourDesires #NervousSystemInformed #AuthenticPleasure #ExploreWithConsent #ReclaimYourBody

All my outfits of Shambhala!!! I love rave culture and the creativity you have to express yourself and adorn yourself however you desire (literally saw someone walking around neked with a watermelon as a hat).

#shambhala #shambhala2025 #shambhala_mf #shambhalalife #raveoutfits

Shambhala 2025: what an incredible time we had! I’ll admit, I was a little worried about what to expect. I haven’t been to Sham in THIRTEEN YEARS! It was hubbys first time going. AND we only knew 2 people in the 25+ person camp🤪 But we did it and WOW!

The music, the stages, the vibe, the creativity, the land holding the event, the staff and volunteers- mind blowing.

If you ever thought about going, let this be your sign! We hope to go back next year 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

#shambhala #shambhala2025 #shambhalamusicfestival #shambhalamf #shambhalalife #shambhalalove

Healing my relationship with my sexuality didn’t take me away from my desires — it brought me so much closer to them.⁠
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During my Somatic Sex Educator certification, I thought I was just going to become a better coach. (I did.) But I also cracked open an entire new world inside myself — one full of messy, sacred, juicy truths about my eroticism.⁠
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Here’s what I discovered:⁠
🔥 Eye contact in missionary? Absolutely floods me.⁠
🔥 Forearm kink? Didn’t know I had one!⁠
🔥 Slow makeout sessions? Holy nervous system reset.⁠
🔥 Praise kink? “That’s my good girl” sends me into orbit.⁠
🔥 Tied up and edged until I whimper? Yes. Please. More.⁠
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And none of that makes me less spiritual, loving, or whole.⁠
I’m not any less compassionate because I’m also kinky. I’m not less tender because I love primal, slutty, hungry sex. ⁠
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In somatic work, I learned to stop performing and start feeling.⁠
To follow my body instead of scripts.⁠
To melt shame and build trust.⁠
To reclaim pleasure on my own terms.⁠
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This is the kind of work I do with clients. We strip away the “shoulds” and start getting curious about what actually turns you on — and why. It’s deeply healing, often hilarious, and wildly freeing.⁠
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Ready to explore what’s waiting in your erotic landscape? 🧠💦 Let’s talk. DMs are open or book a session through the link in bio.⁠
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You’re not too much. You’re just turned on.⁠ 🖤⁠
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