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TAARA & JAMES
Open Relationship Educators.
Podcast Hosts & Producers.
International Speakers.
Trauma-Informed.
Free Spirits. Hedonists. Eccentric.
OUR GOAL
We help couples & individuals navigate
NON MONOGAMY - sparking DEEPER connections, STEAMY encounters, and UNFORGETTABLE experiences, while keeping it safe & sexy!!!.
Somatic Sex Coaching & Sexological Bodywork
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Somatic Sex Education (SSE) is a trauma-informed, client-led approach that bridges the gap between therapy and bodywork. This work is rooted in pleasure-based healing, using neuroplasticity to rewire patterns and deepen your connection to yourself. Through a mix of guided exploration, somatic practices, and (when appropriate) hands-on support, I help you map, reclaim, and expand your experience of pleasure.
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I offer in-person sessions in my private Calgary studio and virtual coaching for those outside the area. Some of the experiences we can explore together include:
- Genital & Pelvic Dearmouring (healing from emotional, religious, physical & sexual trauma)
- Pleasure Mapping & Direct Pleasure Awareness
- Orgasm Coaching & Masturbation Support
- Desire & Fantasy Exploration
- Erotic Massage & Touch for Couples
- Non-Monogamy & Open Relationship Coaching
- Empowered Choice, Voice & Boundaries
…and so much more.
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Click below to learn more & book a session:
Non-monogamy is about embracing openness, authenticity, and intentional connection in your relationships. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach—each dynamic is uniquely defined by you and your partners, rooted in communication, consent, and mutual respect.
With a strong foundation of self-awareness, trust, and clear agreements, non-monogamy can be a path to deeper intimacy, personal growth, and meaningful, life-changing connections. It’s an opportunity to honor your desires, explore your sacred sexual energy, and build relationships that truly align with who you are.
Non Monogamy
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![Hereās the thing about STIs that most people donāt realize:ā
The most common symptomā¦ is no symptom at all.ā
So when someone says, āI donāt need to test because Iām clean,ā my whole body goes ...āEW, no.āā
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The truth? Being ācleanā isnāt a status...itās a shame-soaked word that suggests anyone with an STI is ādirty.ā And that couldnāt be further from the truth.ā
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As a somatic sex coach, I support people in unpacking the shame and stigma around sexual health conversations. Because language like this not only spreads misinformation, it keeps us small, fearful, and disconnected from our pleasure.ā
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Hereās what I teach clients when we talk about sexual health and intimacy:ā
āØ Replace āIām cleanā with: āI was last tested on [date], and my results were [status].āā
āØ Remember that testing isnāt a one-time thing; itās ongoing care for yourself and your partners.ā
āØ Talking openly about STIs builds trust, safety, and deeper intimacy. Things our nervous systems crave in order to fully relax into pleasure.ā
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One of my clients once told me that practicing these conversations out loud (yes, we role-played!) made them feel more empowered and less anxious before dates. Instead of worrying about rejection, they felt grounded in self-respect and able to show up authentically.ā
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Pleasure grows when safety and honesty are at the center. So if itās been a while since you last tested, maybe this is your sign!ā
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